Manager realizes he is losing a very valuable employee only after she leaves and asks for recommendations to identify “quiet performers” before they walk out: ‘Is it just asking better questions, or is there something structural that actually works?’

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  • Anyone else struggle with recognizing quiet performers before they just walk out?

    Had a solid team member put in her notice last week. No warning signs I caught, no complaints, no drama. Just a calm conversation and two weeks notice. She
  • was never the loudest in the room, never asked for anything, just delivered consistently for two years. After she left I went back through her work and realized how much she
  • was quietly carrying. Never flagged it, never asked for a raise, never pushed back on scope creep. Just absorbed it.
  • The high performers who make noise are easy to track. They tell you when they're frustrated, they
  • negotiate, they advocate for themselves. The quiet ones you only notice when they stop showing up.
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  • I've been thinking about how my 1:1s are structured. I tend to ask about projects and blockers but probably not enough about what they
  • actually want from the role long term. By the time someone like her had made up her mind to leave, no 1:1 was going to change it anyway.
  • Curious if other managers have figured out a way to catch this earlier, not in a manipulative way, just genuinely getting ahead of it before the decision is
  • already made. Is it just asking better questions, or is there something structural that actually works?
  • crossplanetriple Se... Top 1% Comme... Managers are supposed to pay attention and recognize what their team members do.
  • HotelDisastrous288 Being present and engaged with the team daily is the only way. We all have our own work to do but managing and knowing our people is the most important task.
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